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You might not be like all those who love to commit and move in under the same roof and between the same walls with their beloved partner? Perhaps experience tells both you and me that one loves living apart at least partially? The ideal would naturally be a manor where one occupied separate wings. That way, you could cuddle in the connecting building and have meals together, read, watch movies, etc. When one desires quiet, solitude, meditation, contemplation, study peace, or creative calm, one goes to their own nest. If finances do not allow for a manor, one can realize the ideal by living apart in separate houses or apartments and alternating cohabitation between the residences. That is probably the ideal in today’s ’equal’ Sweden, where most have been spoiled with the demands for individual freedom. Personally, I have lived alone for so many years in my life that the desire to live together with someone 24/7, year after year, can lead to shingles and allergies.
It is not always the man who complains and nags the most. Unfortunately, such things always come sooner or later. What happens at the moment the complaining starts to become a daily occurrence and respect for the beloved partner is eroded is that love cools down. The consequence usually becomes problems with the sex life. A partner who feels high demands and receives unnecessary criticism for shortcomings loses desire.
Unfortunately, not everyone realizes that a lack of humility towards a partner is a serious fault. One must be able to express one’s wishes politely, without offending with aggression. Ruthlessness can easily turn into harassment, and then it soon escalates into hatred and violence. Some men strike so that noses bleed. Too late the sinner wakes up!
Yippee! Life is wonderful, especially the first 3 months when the relationship is a paradise of kisses, caresses, and erotic desire. It is not just a dazzlement, it is reality and does us good.
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About cohabitation
27-10-25
Maybe you’re not like all those who love to bond and move in together under the same roof and between the same walls, with their beloved partner? Maybe experience tells both you and me that you love at least partially living separately? The ideal would of course be a mansion where you lived in each wing. That way you could cozy up in the middle building and eat meals together, read, watch movies, etc. When you want silence, solitude, meditation, contemplation, study peace, create peace, you go to your nest. If finances are not enough for a mansion, you can realize the ideal by living separately in each house, apartment and alternating living together between the homes. That’s probably the perfect thing in today’s ”equal” Sweden, where most people have been spoiled by the demands for individual freedom. Personally, I’ve lived alone for so many years in my life that the desire to live together with someone 24/7, year in and year out, can cause shingles and allergies.
It is not always the man who complains and whines the most. Unfortunately, this always happens sooner or later. What happens when the whining starts to become a daily routine and respect for the beloved partner is eroded is that love cools down. The result is usually problems with sex life. A partner who makes high demands and receives unnecessary criticism for shortcomings loses desire.
Unfortunately, not everyone understands that the lack of humility towards the partner is a serious mistake. You must be able to explain each other’s wishes kindly, without offending with aggression. Ruthlessness easily turns into harassment and then it soon explodes into hatred and violence. Some men cut so much that their noses bleed. The sinner will wake up late!
Yippee! Life is wonderful, especially the first 3 months when life together is a paradise of kisses, caresses and erotic lust. It is not just a spectacle, it is reality and does us good.
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Om samlevnad
27-10-25
Du kanske inte är som alla de, vilka älskar att binda sig och flytta ihop under samma tak och mellan samma väggar, med den älskade partnern? Kanske erfarenheten säger både Dig o mig, att man älskar åtminstone delvis särboende? Idealet vore naturligtvis en herrgård där man huserade i varsin flygel. Så kunde man mysa i mellanbyggnaden och äta gemensamma måltider, läsa, titta på film m.m. När man önskar tystnad, ensamhet, meditation, kontemplation, studiero, skapar ro, går man till sitt näste. Om finanserna inte räcker till en herrgård, kan man förverkliga idealet genom att bo särbo i varsitt hus, lägenhet och växla sammanboendet mellan bostäderna. Det är väl det perfekta i dagens ”jämställda” Sverige, där de flesta blivit bortskämda med kraven på individuell frihet. Personligen har jag bott själv så många år i mitt liv, att lusten att leva tillsammans med någon 24/7, år ut och in, kan ge bältros och allergi.
Det är inte alltid mannen som klagar o gnäller mest. Sådant kommer tyvärr alltid förr eller senare. Vad som händer i den stund gnället börjar bli en daglig visa och respekten för den älskade partnern urholkas, är att kärleken svalnar. Följden brukar bli problem med sexlivet. En partner som känner stora krav och får ta emot onödig kritik för brister, tappar lusten.
Tyvärr fattar inte alla att bristen på ödmjukhet mot partnern är ett allvarligt fel. Man måste kunna förklara vars och ens önskningar snällt, utan att kränka med aggressivitet. Hänsynslöshet går lätt över i trakasserier och då smäller det snart i hat och våld. En del män klipper till så att näsan bloar. Sent ska syndaren vakna!
Jippie! Livet är underbart framför allt de första 3 månaderna när samlivet är ett paradis av kyssar, smek och erotisk lusta. Det är inte bara ett bländverk, det är verklighet och gör oss gott.